Love, Empowerment & Dating Coaching

for Alternative Lifestyles

Liberate yourself from old stories of how your romantic life is “supposed” to look.

Discover the freedom of embracing your true expression of sexuality and your desires.

Write your future toward your most vibrant joy.

Where does the pathway of your heart lead?

Picture this!

A heterosexual nuclear family with two children, a cat, and a dog. Homeowners complete with a picket fence. The dream that so many of us were taught to work towards. But what if this isn’t what your heart truly desires?

I specialize in helping all those desiring, or curious about an alternate path. Working together to align my clients with their inner truth and gradually transform and shake up the stories that prevent them from taking the path less expressed in our society. The one that is right for them!

What you can expect

I am a love, sex, relationship, and empowerment coach trained in the VITA: "The Vital and Intigrated Tantric Approach" methodology. 

What the VITA methodology entails:

Through the powerful combination of holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement, this method offers a completely unique approach to healing and awakening sexuality. 

In a session together we gain clarity on what you truly desire in your life. We can focus on the realms of love, dating, empowerment, sexuality, or confidence and then use somatic exploration to discover what is beneath the surface; beneath what your mind is aware of. Our bodies hold onto many things from the past and we can gain so much wisdom by engaging in this kind of exploration. Often there is so much that your conscious mind is unaware of. By bringing awareness and acceptance to things we’ve been taught to suppress in ourselves we can pave a pathway toward healing and ultimately thriving.

What clients are saying…

Working with Ashley was an unexpectedly powerful experience, far beyond what I imagined. From the very beginning, we set goals around cultivating desire and opening myself up to dating again. Not only were those goals met, they were exceeded. I began experiencing desire not just conceptually, but physically, and I started noticing a true shift in how I relate to my body.

One of the most meaningful changes was the transformation from an anxious need to find love into a peaceful, embodied openness. I uncovered hidden blocks I didn’t even know were there, and we gently moved through them. For the first time in a long while, I feel content, whole and complete whether a romantic connection appears or not.

Ashley has an incredible presence. Her ability to listen deeply, ask just the right questions, and hold a space that feels both safe and expansive allowed me to be fully vulnerable and do real, lasting work. She struck a beautiful balance between empathy and challenge, always reflecting things back in ways that opened new doors of insight.

I now find myself nurturing and romancing myself, something I had never truly done. I’m planning solo outings and dates just for me, and it’s having a profound impact on my emotional well-being. I uncovered deeply held patterns that I’ve now brought into therapy to continue exploring.

Ashley’s follow-up, organization, and support throughout the journey were impeccable. I always knew what we were working on, what I had committed to, and what was next. The notes she provided will serve me for a long time to come. This wasn’t just coaching, it was a real reclamation of self.

— Nichole B.

I felt so open and safe with Ashley. Her guidance through visualization exercises easily helped me to identify my feelings and patterns, create goals, and have such a lovely accountability partner. I have worked with numerous therapists in the past, and never could get so deep with talk therapy. I found that Ashley's somatic coaching is so much more helpful for finding the root of "blockages" and problem solving to make corrections. I am so grateful that I met Ashley and highly recommend her coaching program.

— Kat G.

  • “With Ashley's guidance, I was able to reconnect to my womb space, gain clarity on parts of myself that were in resistance to my dreams and work through them, and even do some profound ancestral healing, allowing me to embody my higher self and live in alignment with my desires."

    ~LL

  • “I was surprised how comfortable and open I felt with our first session. I felt heard and supported the entire time and really appreciated that."

    ~RD

  • “Ashley held space really well and I felt very comfortable being myself with her. She also did a great job with having options for exercises depending on which way I felt we should go into the sessions."

    ~SM

  • This process allowed me to stay connected to my deepest wishes for relationship in a time of significant transition. Ashley gave me the foundation to continue stepping towards what I really want with confidence and belief in my worth.

    ~EP

I specialize in guiding:

  • The LGBTQ+ Community

    Whether you are curious or have come out, you have almost certainly witnessed oppression towards embracing your identity and the love you want.

    Our sessions can help you powerfully embody your truth, and support you in expressing your shiniest, most vibrant self in your romantic life.

  • Polyamorous Humans

    Being poly means working through old stories of finding “the one”, rewriting dependency needs, examining jealousy… It’s a journey into self and into learning how to communicate in partnerships on a deep level. I am here to support you on this exploration!

  • Nomadic Travelers

    Finding love and community can be challenging when you are on the road. Loneliness and a sense of lack of security can be overwhelming. With 7+ years of experience as a digital nomad I have been there and in addition to our somatic work together to build clarity on what you desire, I can offer many tips and tricks for how to engage in community and seek love while on the road.

My personal experience with all of these alternative ways of living has helped me to understand that having support while walking these societally divergent walks is so valuable.
No matter which direction you choose in life, I want to assist in championing you on your way.
I am 1000% there for the collaborative journey!
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You don’t fit into one of these above categories?
You’re so welcome to be here!
Remember this is all about being FAR OUT of the box!

I specialize in these areas, but am enthusiastic about helping anyone
that resonates with this deep and healing work.

Coaching Packages Catered to You!

  • Weekly 75-90 minute, 1-on-1 sessions

  • Personalized exercises, homework, and collaborative intention setting
    to engage in between sessions to help you reach your goals

  • Weekly supportive check-ins from your coach

  • Unlimited guidance and support via email

  • Helpful tools, tips, and tricks for navigating your unique obstacles

Want to explore working together?

Book a free 45 minute consultation below!

Interested in learning about my training program?
Does becoming a certified Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach excite you?

Learn more about my personal journey and how you too can follow this path below!